Spouse Spur Rides Foster Relationships: Strengthening Bonds Through Military Programs
As a military spouse, it can be challenging to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner due to deployments, frequent moves, and other factors unique to the military lifestyle. However, there are programs available to military couples that can help strengthen their bond and enhance their relationship. One such program is the Spouse Spur Ride, which has been proven to foster relationships and create lasting memories for military couples.
What is a Spouse Spur Ride?
A Spouse Spur Ride is a military program that allows spouses to experience some of the training and activities their partners undergo during their military duties. The name "spur ride" comes from the cavalry tradition, where a soldier would earn spurs after completing a difficult mission or task. In the case of a Spouse Spur Ride, the mission is to strengthen the bond between military couples.
How does a Spouse Spur Ride work?
During a Spouse Spur Ride, spouses participate in military activities, such as weapons training, obstacle courses, and team-building exercises. They also have the opportunity to meet and bond with other military spouses who are going through similar experiences. These events are typically organized and funded by the military installation or unit.
What are the benefits of a Spouse Spur Ride?
Participating in a Spouse Spur Ride has many benefits for military couples. First and foremost, it allows spouses to gain a better understanding of what their partner experiences during their military duties, which can foster empathy and appreciation for their sacrifices. It also provides an opportunity for couples to spend quality time together and create shared experiences that can strengthen their bond. Additionally, Spouse Spur Rides can help military spouses build a network of support with other military spouses who understand the unique challenges of military life.
Spouse Spur Ride Success Stories
Many military couples have reported that participating in a Spouse Spur Ride has had a positive impact on their relationship. One such couple, Sarah and John, had been struggling with communication and connection due to John's frequent deployments. However, after participating in a Spouse Spur Ride, they were able to communicate better and create a deeper connection.
Another couple, Kelly and Michael, had recently moved to a new military installation and were struggling to make friends and adjust to their new surroundings. They decided to participate in a Spouse Spur Ride and were able to meet other military couples who quickly became close friends.
How to Participate in a Spouse Spur Ride
If you are interested in participating in a Spouse Spur Ride, contact your local military installation or unit for information on upcoming events. These events are typically open to all military spouses, regardless of rank or branch of service.
“Order of the Spur”
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History
The tradition of the Order has its roots in knighthood, where the awarding of gilt spurs symbolized entry into ranks and fraternity of mounted warriors. Usually, the squire aspiring to knighthood had to perform some task or deed on the battlefield or tournament field (tournaments were considered training for combat) to "win their spurs". The spurs themselves were buckled on during the investiture to knighthood, usually during Mass or some other religious ceremony (knighthood itself was considered sacramental, if not a sacrament itself). Thereafter, it was the spurs that symbolized that a man was a knight, not his sword, horse, or armor. No matter how financially destitute, a poor knight would part with everything else before his spurs. The primary act of degradation (removing someone from the knightly class) was to have another knight cut off the offending knights spurs. So much for the mists of time. It is not known when the ceremony for awarding spurs for outstanding performance was started in the US Cavalry.
The "Order of the Spur" is a Cavalry tradition within the United States Army. Soldiers serving with Cavalry units (referred to as Troopers) are inducted into the Order of the Spur after successfully completing a "Spur Ride" or for having served during combat as a member of a Cavalry unit.
The tradition of having to "earn your spurs" reaches back to the beginning of the cavalry. When green Troopers first arrived at their new cavalry assignments they were assigned a horse with a shaved tail. This led to the nickname "Shave Tail" for newly assigned, spur-less Soldiers. These new Troopers were in need of extensive training, especially in the area of swordsmanship from atop a horse. The horse with a shaved tail was given extra space in which to operate since its rider was marked as an amateur. During this phase of training the Troopers were not allowed to wear spurs because this would only serve to compound their problems. Only when they were able to prove their ability to perform with their horse and saber were they awarded spurs.
The Spur Ride
The Spur Ride is the only means of joining the Order of the Spur, aside from a wartime induction. The Spur Ride is an event normally held over multiple days during which a Trooper must pass a series of physical and mental tests that evaluate leadership, technical and tactical proficiency, and the ability to operate as part of a team under high levels of stress and fatigue, under both day and night conditions. A written test is often administered, with questions that cover United States Cavalry and unit history. During the Spur Ride, candidates will be required to recite from memory the traditional cavalry poem, Fiddler's Green, or other traditions or historical information pertaining to the Cavalry.
Today the Order of the Spur recognizes individual qualification for those in a Cavalry Unit. The privilege of being awarded spurs in any Cavalry Unit comes with hard work and challenges. The criteria for participation in the Spur Ride are set by each Cavalry unit, usually at the Squadron level. Many units require demonstrated leadership ability through planning and conducting unit-level training events such as established standards of performance on gunnery ranges, soldier task training or other NCO/Officer-level tasks. Some examples of minimum criteria are:
Service in the Squadron or Regiment for at least 180 days.
Service in at least three Field Exercises.
A score of at least 240 in the last Army Physical Fitness Test.
Meet or exceed the weight standards according to AR 600-9.
Qualify to "Expert" or "Sharpshooter" on personal weapon.
Possess the spirit, determination, cunning and initiative in the finest traditions of the United States Cavalry.
Once documented as having achieved the above performance objectives, the candidate is designated to participate in the Spur Ride Exercise. This exercise requires the completion of:
Land Navigation Problem.
Leadership Reaction Situation.
First Aid Administration.
Weapons Deployment and Use.
Signal and Communication Procedures.
Nuclear, Biological and Chemical Situation.
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Certification
Upon successful accomplishment of the requirements, the Senior Officer awards an "Order Of The Spur" Certificate signed by the Troop and Squadron Commander along with a set of Spurs to be proudly worn by the Trooper throughout his/her Cavalry Career.
There are two types of spurs that are characterized by their appearance. Those having a silver finish indicates that the soldier went through a rite of passage, established by their unit commanders. Those having a gold finish indicates that the person wearing them has deployed and has experienced combat with a cavalry unit.
Within the tradition, silver spurs and gold spurs hold a similar relationship for the cavalry as the Expert Infantryman Badge and the Combat Infantryman Badge hold in the Infantry. There is no Military Occupational Specialty (MOS) requirement for the Order of the Spur and the order is open to members of foreign militaries serving with US Cavalry units.
New spur holders are welcomed with a formal induction ceremony. The ceremony is a dining in, called the Spur Dinner, that often includes other military traditions such as honoring lost comrades, a ceremonial punch[1] (called a grog), and a roll call of the successful candidates. Some units also hold a "hero's breakfast" immediately following the end of the Spur Ride. During the breakfast, the unit commander presents a toast welcoming the successful candidates to the brotherhood prior to the formal induction ceremony.
Regulation
The US Department of the Army classifies the Order of the Spur as an Army tradition, so regulations for induction into the Order of the Spur and the wear of cavalry accoutrements are set by each cavalry unit commander. Lacking any Army-wide regulations, some standards may differ from unit to unit, but the tradition remains the same. What follows is one example of a Cavalry Squadron's policy on the wear of Stetsons and Spurs:
Spurs: Spurs will be worn as a matched pair. The type of spurs allowed are set by each unit but most often they are Prince of Wales style spurs.
Low Quarters: The spurs will be affixed to the footgear midway between the upper portion of the sole and the lower part of the heel along the seam of the shoe. The "U" shaped portion shall enclose the shoe in such a manner as to assure that the rowel of the spurs curves down to the ground. The strap will be fastened over the instep of the footgear in such a manner that the buckle faces to the outside of the foot.
Boots: The spurs will be affixed to the footgear so that the "U" shaped portion follows the seam of the ankle support. The strap will be fastened over the instep of the footgear in such a manner that the buckles face the outside of the boot.
Single Soldiers will wear the rowels of their spurs pointing up, while married Soldiers will do so with their rowels pointing down.
Occasions for Wear: Spurs and Stetsons will be worn at all cavalry functions, otherwise, they will not be worn outside of the cavalry footprint. Spurs may be authorized by the local command, but are not authorized for wear at Army functions not specifically dedicated to cavalry. Wear with civilian attire may be restricted by a local commander, but otherwise the spurs may be mixed with civilian attire when rank has been removed.
Art Workshops for Children are Important
Why art workshops are important for emotional and educational development in children.
Children's art workshops are educational programs designed to encourage children to express themselves creatively through various forms of art. These workshops are led by experienced artists, educators, or art therapists who have specialized knowledge in working with children.
The activities in a children's art workshop are designed to engage children in creative thinking, problem-solving, and self-expression. They may include drawing, painting, sculpture, collage, printmaking, and other forms of visual art. The workshops may also incorporate elements of music, dance, theater, or storytelling.
The workshops may be structured as a series of classes or as a one-time event. They may be offered by schools, community centers, museums, or other cultural institutions. The workshops may be geared towards a specific age group, such as toddlers, preschoolers, or elementary school children, and may be tailored to the interests and abilities of the participants.
Children's art workshops can provide many benefits for children, including:
Developing creativity and imagination
Building self-esteem and self-confidence
Improving fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination
Developing problem-solving skills and critical thinking
Encouraging socialization and teamwork
Providing a sense of accomplishment and pride in their work
Offering a safe space for emotional expression and exploration
Enhancing cultural awareness and appreciation
Overall, children's art workshops provide a fun and enriching environment for children to explore their creativity and develop important life skills.
Spotlight: Piper Connor
From the beginning, Piper has shown such amazing talent! We have experimented with drawing, colored pencil, acrylic painting, and watercolor. She nails it every time with a vision from the moment she sets her mind to the project! Follow Piper on Instagram!
We’re Back!.. Almost!
It all begins with an idea.
I feel like I keep saying this, but I am so sorry that it feels like Ink Stick fell off the radar the last couple of years. The truth is, we started out needing some time to ourselves when COVID started the spring of 2020 and that self-reflection time turned into finding a balance with business and our family.
When the pandemic started, we shut down all group workshops. I continued private lessons and experimented with painting kits. I was enjoying painting for myself and not just lessons. But… I felt like I was missing an arm without my lesson planning and sharing them with my art kids. Since opening the studio, the kids became a part of my identity. So much so, that people still think of me as the art lady. It is 2023 now. We have moved across the country. We operate a successful Etsy shop. I host virtual private lessons. We are planning retirement from the military in the near future. And my heart is still with my art workshops.
My husband and I have found a calling serving military families and communities. And we enjoy serving through art in the form of classes, sharing knowledge, and expressing our appreciation for others’ service. This is the foundation for our future studio.
I will not be opening up art workshops in my home again, but we are on a path to getting back to workshops in the near future in a studio. And that means we have a little more push up the hill to get there.